Gary Chapman and I have both talked about issues of forgiveness in radio interviews this month. Many assume that forgiveness has no qualifiers so our analysis of Bible passages about forgiveness may be surprising. I thought my readers might like to hear what we are saying on this topic.
CLICK HERE to listen to an in-depth radio chat with Gary Chapman. Skip to minute 11 to hear about forgiveness. Here is a description of the whole interview:
Saying, “I’m sorry” just isn’t enough sometimes when you’ve hurt someone. Bestselling Author Dr. Gary Chapman will explain the five fundamental aspects or “languages” of an apology and how understanding your own primary apology language can lead to deeper, more powerful healing and enrich all your relationships.
In the interview, Gary Chapman has surprised some by saying this:
“I think we have a lot of fuzzy thinking about forgiveness in the Christian church. My answer to the question, “Do you forgive someone before they have apologized to you or not?” is… “What does God do?” 1 John 1:9 says that if we confess our sins, God is faithful and just to forgive us our sins. God asks us to acknowledge/confess/agree about our sin. We call this an apology but the Biblical word is confession… Ephesians 4 says that we are to forgive others in the same way that God forgives us. God forgives in response to confession and repentance… Forgiveness is the Christian response to an honest apology… In order for us not to be caught in a prison of unforgiveness/bitterness, we should engage in “releasing” those who are unapologetic.”
CLICK HERE to listen to my online interview. The segment begins with the issue of dealing with unrepentant people. Here is a brief description of the interview:
Learn the 5 “languages” of apology and how to experience healing in your relationships! (Jennifer Thomas)…plus insights on how a wife can resolve differences with her husband over running late!
What are your thoughts about forgiveness?